Can't connect to MySQL server on 'jabber.jp' (no replies)

Hi i want creat gluxi bot on jabber server with debian linux but after config that and want to run gluxi error accurs : Can't connect to MySQL server on 'jabber.jp' (110) QMYSQL: Unable to connect

for run bot i read the manual:

mysql -u root

create database gluxi; # # grant all privileges on gluxi.* to gluxi@localhost identified by 'your_db_password' with grant option;

mysql -u root -D gluxi < mysql.sql
mysql -u root -D gluxi < config.sql
cd /home/gluxi-dev/sql/update/
nano dbupdate.sh

#!/bin/sh

DBHOST="localhost"
DBNAME="gluxi"
DBUSER="gluxi"
DBPASS="gluxi"
DBTYPE="$1"

#edit database name, password, host, user

./dbupdate.sh mysql

cd /home/gluxi-dev/debug/
nano gluxi.cfg


[database]
type=QMYSQL
server=testing
port=3306
user=dion
password=mysql
database=gluxi

chmod +x gluxi
su your_user
./gluxi

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I did the fallowing like:

create database gluxi; # # grant all privileges on gluxi.* to mgluxi@jabber.jp identified by 'User Password=>(mgluxi@jabber.jp)' with grant option;


DBHOST="jabber.jp"
DBNAME="gluxi"
DBUSER="mgluxi"
DBPASS="User Password"
DBTYPE="$1"

and finally



[database]
type=QMYSQL
server=jabber.jp
port=3306
user=mgluxi
password=User Password
database=gluxi


after i run ./gluxi it show me:

Can't connect to MySQL server on 'jabber.jp' (110) QMYSQL: Unable to connect


where i did wrong ?!?
Anybody can help me please ?!?